The ways of God are mysterious and known only to Him, but occasionally; we are witness to a miracle that can only be attributed to the Almighty.
After several years of disappointments and broken dreams, my friends Michael and Melissa had nearly lost their hope of having another child. During this time, Michael’s father, Junior, was one of their steadfast allies, always ready to lend a listening ear, and quick with the kind of encouragement only a parent can provide. Described by Michael as “the greatest Dad a guy could ever have,” Junior was his hero, best friend, and role model in life.
All too soon, Junior passed away in May, 2011, without ever setting eyes on the legacy that would soon be his. The family was distraught and felt adrift without Junior’s presence.
On what would have been the couple’s 41st anniversary, Junior’s wife, Kathy, wrote, “41 years ago today I married my soul-mate.We grew up together and made many happy memories together. But 74 days ago I lost him and my soul has a hole in it. I miss him so very much and although I know we will be together again, I still don’t know how to live the days until that happens. In my memories you’re smiling and laughing, I will always remember the happy times. Happy Anniversary to my wonderful husband. Junior, I will love you forever! A life that touches others will go on forever.”
As the family’s first Christmas without Junior approached, the mood was solemn. The holiday excitement was missing. That is, until Junior’s son and daughter-in-law received a gift — the news that they were finally expecting.
In August 2012, baby Kayden was born, and it was if the family did a double-take when they looked into her eyes. For staring back at them was nearly an identical resemblance to Junior’s smiling cheeks and deep-set eyes.
In some Eastern religions, we read of the belief that the soul of deceased person comes back to life in a newborn. Whether or not this is to be believed, one thing is certain — a beautiful child has a way of helping mend the soul’s wounds – a way of healing the emptiness of that which has been lost.
The truth from Kathy’s words are apparent as you look into the eyes of this beautiful child, “A life that touches others will go on forever.”